Don’t accept an invitation to a party.

If it’s the one Saturday you have free that month, and you really want to spend it alone with your spouse, or working on a personal project, say no thank you with love and grace. By saying no to others, you have said yes to your marriage and to yourself.

Remember that you always have options, and you are always at choice. It’s unrealistic to think that everyone will hate you if you don’t attend a party. Don’t lose sight of the big picture.